We lawyers are obliged to follow and carry out the instruction of our clients. Most of the time, the instructions are reasonable and we carry them out diligently.
However, there’re clients who won’t listen to their lawyers’ advice and insist on proceeding in their own way.
This creates a problem for the lawyer. Because the communication between a lawyer and a client is privileged, the contents of the communication may not be divulged without the client’s express consent. Therefore, the lawyer may not explain to the court that the client is being unreasonable or that the client is proceeding against the lawyer’s legal advice. Rather, if the lawyer remains on the case, he or she will have to diligently advance the client’s interests, even if doing so will attract criticism from the court and the opposing party.
Personal attacks or threats to a lawyer from the opposing party (often self-represented) are not unheard of. For example, I’ve received racist comments (“Go back to your country“), personal attacks (“You sick ****“), character assassination (“You’re breaking up my marriage for a couple bucks,”) and even death threats (“Drop dead and die“).
These attacks and/or threats seldom work to the attacker’s advantage. Rather, they merely reinforce the hostility between the parties and prolong the litigation process. “I’d rather pay you than pay him/her,” as I often hear in divorce cases, never serve anyone’s best interest.
If you’re a self-represented party who is frustrated with the opposing party’s lawyer, I suggest that you obtain representation before lashing out.
Lawyers are able to assess the situation objectively – something most self-represented litigants cannot do on their own. Often, bringing in representation opens up communication between the parties. Once the parties are able to communicate calmly with each other through counsel, the items in dispute may be resolved through negotiation.
Whatever you do, don’t go around shooting the messenger. It won’t help your case.


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