Legalese Dictionary

Marriage and Cohabitation: What’s the Difference?

Ever wondered about the legal difference between marriage and cohabitation?

In a nutshell, the difference is that a marriage cannot be legally undone by the parties. Once two persons are married, they are spouses of each other until the marriage is dissolved by a court order or by death.

Even for people who have been separated from their spouses for many years, without a divorce order (or the death of the other spouse), they are considered married and cannot legally remarry under the current law.

In other words, “Once you’re married, you’re married.” There’s no undoing a marriage on your own – at least not in Canada.

Cohabitation, on the other hand, is largely based on a mutual desire to live together. If one day you decide to leave the relationship, it’s perfectly legal for you to walk straight into another one (or even get married). Stories about how a guy broke up with his long-time girlfriend and got married with another woman days later are not unheard of.

Of course, when you look at the fine print, couples who have lived together for a long time still have legal rights and responsibilities similar to those between married spouses. As for the details of the similarities and differences, I leave those for another day.

This blog is provided for educational purposes. It is not legal advice and should not be regarded as such. The law may have changed since the publication of this article.

Separation Agreements, Prenuptial Agreements (and Other Domestic Contracts) Made Outside Ontario

A contract is governed by the laws of wherever it is that the contract was formed. The validity of domestic contracts, including separation agreements, cohabitation agreements, and prenuptial agreements, is subject to the laws of the land where the contract in question was made. Thus, a domestic contract made in Germany must comply with German law for it to be recognized as valid and enforceable in Ontario.

However, to discourage “forum shopping” – i.e., Ontario residents travelling to another jurisdiction where the laws are more favourable to their circumstances – the Ontario Family Law Act* includes specific provisions to set limits on the validity and enforceability of domestic contracts made outside Ontario.

Specifically, domestic contracts must be compliant with Ontario’s internal law to be recognized as valid and enforceable. For example, a provision in a marriage contract or a cohabitation agreement regarding the right to custody of or access to children would not be enforceable.

Even if the domestic contracts made outside Ontario are recognized as valid and enforceable, a spouse nonetheless has the right to apply to the courts in Ontario to set aside the contract in dispute.

*R.S.O. 1990, c.F3

This blog is provided for educational purposes. It is not legal advice and should not be regarded as such. The law may have changed since the publication of this article.

Legalese Dictionary: “Deductions” and “Exclusions” When Calculating Net Family Property

By law, the process of dividing the properties in a marriage is called the “equalization process.” Both spouses tabulate their net worth, and whoever ends up with less is entitled to half of the difference.

In most cases the matter of which properties are owned by each spouse is not in dispute. However, the issue of whether each specific property should be included in the net family property is often fraught with contention.

It turns out that the law allows, in limited circumstances, for a spouse to exclude or to deduct specific types of properties. While the words “deduction” and “exclusion” are often used interchangeably in everyday use, they have very different meanings under the law for the purposes of dividing properties in a divorce or separation.

Deductions under the Family Law Act* refers to the subtraction of the value of certain properties at a specific date, usually the date of marriage. Exclusions,” however, refers to omitting the properties from the net family property entirely.

For example, if a painting was worth $10,000 at the date of marriage and $50,000 at the valuation date, to deduct the painting as of the date of marriage would be to include the painting in the owner’s net family property at $40,000 (the current worth of $50,000 less $10,000 at the date of marriage). However, if the owner gets to exclude the painting entirely, then the painting would not be included in the owner’s net family property at all.

Generally speaking, exclusions are rare. Examples include gifts or inheritances acquired during the marriage (but not necessarily income generated from the gifts or inheritances), damages awarded, life insurance policy proceeds, and items agreed to in a separation agreement.

*R.S.O. 1990, c. F3

This blog is provided for educational purposes. It is not legal advice and should not be regarded as such. The law may have changed since the publication of this article.

Planning a Summer Wedding? A Few Legal Things to Keep in Mind

Although today is only the second day of spring, the weather in Toronto makes it feel like early summer. For many couples planning to marry, the nice weather inexplicably makes them want to ring their wedding bell sooner rather than later.

As a family law lawyer, I’d like to remind spouses-to-be that sometime before the knot is tied – amid all the cake tasting and gown fitting – there are a few legal things to think about. This is especially true if either or both of the spouses has been married before.

First and foremost, if either spouse-to-be has had a divorce outside Ontario, he or she must obtain a legal opinion letter (usually referred to as a “foreign divorce opinion letter“) from a lawyer stating whether that divorce should be recognized in Canada. Without the opinion letter and the authorization from the Office of the Registrar General, the couple won’t be able to obtain a marriage licence and cannot get married.

If either of the spouses-to-be has any children, he or she should consider entering into a marriage agreement (marriage contract) that specifies the other spouse’s rights with respect to the children and obligations to support them.

Merely being a step-parent doesn’t mean being obliged to support the kids financially, especially if the kids are older. However, if, say, a step-dad takes the kids in as if they were his own and supports them through the marriage, he may be required to continue his support even if the marriage fails.

It is also a good idea to enter into a marriage contract if either of the spouses-to-be expects an inheritance or a substantial amount of gifts, or if one of them will be moving into the other’s home.

The reason for the caution is that the law treats gifts or inheritances acquired after the marriage and the matrimonial home brought into the marriage as special species of properties. That’s why these items are often a source of regret if the marriage doesn’t work out.

If your bride or groom is expected to receive an inheritance or gifts after the marriage, or to move into your home, you should discuss the legal ramifications with your lawyer before the wedding bell tolls.

This blog is provided for educational purposes. It is not legal advice and should not be regarded as such. The law may have changed since the publication of this article.

It’s Your Right to Live and Remain in the Matrimonial Home

Imagine this: A couple has a big argument. In the heat of the moment, the wife tells the husband, “GET OUT!” Does the husband have to go?

The short answer is no. The husband doesn’t have to go anywhere, as a matter of fact. The home is his castle as much as it’s hers, and he can’t be forced out without good reason.

Under the law, the right to live and remain in the matrimonial home is a personal right against the other spouse. It cannot be waived by either party. The spouses can voluntarily decide to separate and live in different households, but no one spouse can force the other to move out.

In other words, a wife, no matter how angry she is, cannot legally throw her husband (or her wife, if she so chose) to the curb, no matter how angry she is, at least without a court order.

Usually, if things are bad enough, one of the spouses will end up leaving the matrimonial home just for his or her own sanity. However, if this doesn’t happen and yet the situation has become intolerable, or there is domestic violence, a spouse can apply to the court and ask for exclusive possession of the matrimonial home.

An order for exclusive possession of the matrimonial home isn’t one that is granted lightly. If the order is granted, the person who violates the order may be arrested without warrant and become subject to penalties under the Family Law Act.*

*R.S.O. 1990 c. F.3, as am., s. 24

This blog is provided for educational purposes. It is not legal advice and should not be regarded as such. The law may have changed since the publication of this article.

Annulment of Marriages in Ontario

Annulment of marriage in law is quite rare in Ontario. As opposed to a divorce, which dissolves a valid marriage, an annulment has the same effect as the marriage’s having never taken place.

Annulment of marriages finds its statutory authority from the Annulment of Marriages Act (Ontario).* The statute is short, containing only 3 paragraphs. It merely states that the part of the law of England that pertains to the annulment of marriage on July 15, 1870, is continued in Ontario in so far as it has not been repealed or changed.

Needless to say, the content of the statute doesn’t provide much insight to readers (lawyers and judges alike) who are not historians of the state of British law on July 15, 1870. Rather, lawyers and judges rely on case law to decide whether a particular marriage should be annulled.

In the recent decision Sahibalzubaidi v. Bahjat of the Ontario Superior Court, the judge heard an application brought by the wife seeking to have the marriage annulled. She alleged non-completion of the ceremony, fraud, and non-consummation of marriage.^

The marriage was to take place in Malaysia according to the Islamic tradition. They had a civil ceremony and the marriage was registered with the local authority. However, the wife felt still unmarried until the religious ceremonies were performed and would not engage in sexual intercourse until then.

Shortly after the civil marriage, the wife sponsored the husband for immigration to Canada.

Upon his arrival in Canada, the husband turned out to be abusive and threatening. The religious ceremonies were never performed, and hence the wife never consummated the marriage because, in her mind, she had not been properly married.

In deciding whether to grant the annulment, the presiding judge considered at length the case Torfehnejad v. Salimi, affirmed by the Court of Appeal.+

The judge dismissed the part of the application based on non-completion of ceremony and fraud, citing that there was insufficient evidence to vitiate the marriage.

In particular, the judge noted that to allow a marriage to be annulled based on fraud, the alleged fraud must have induced an operative mistake to the marriage, such as one’s identity.# Mere misrepresentation of one’s character isn’t enough. (I suspect many would rush to apply for annulment if such a ground were available.)

Although the first two bases of the application were dismissed for want of evidence, the judge accepted the wife’s evidence that the marriage was never consummated. Following an Alberta decision of Jomha v. Jomha, the court held that

an annulment may be granted where the marriage is not consummated by reasons of an invincible repugnance or impossibility in the mind of at least one of the parties, akin to a psychological abhorrence, to engage in sexual intercourse with the marriage partner.&

Given that the wife’s strongly held religious beliefs prevented her from consummating the marriage prior to the religious ceremonies that never happened, the court granted the annulment on that basis.

*R.S.C. 1970 c. A-14

^ (2011), 107 O.R. (3d) 53; 2011 ONSC 4075

+[2006] O.J. No. 4633 (Ont. S.C.J.), aff’d [2008] O.J. No. 3165, 2008 ONCA 583

# Iantsis v. Papatheodorou, [1971] 1 O.R. 245, O.J. No. 1642 (C.A.)

& [2010] A.J. No. 219, 2010 ABQB 135

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Assessing the Risks of a Defendant Dissipating Assets for a Mareva Injunction

Today’s blog discusses a fine point of law regarding the required evidence in cases involving allegations of fraud before a Mareva injunction (or, in common parlance, a freezing order) can be granted.

The legal prerequisites of a Mareva injunction are well-established:

a) The plaintiff must make full and frank disclosure of all material matters within his or her knowledge.

b) The plaintiff must give particulars of the claim against the defendant.

c) The plaintiff must give grounds for believing that the defendant has assets in the jurisdiction.

d) The plaintiff must give grounds for believing that there is a real risk of the assets being removed from the jurisdiction, disposed of within the jurisdiction, or otherwise dealt with so that the plaintiff will be unable to satisfy a judgment awarded.

e) The plaintiff must give an undertaking as to damages.

In the recently published case Sibley & Associates LP v. Ross,* the plaintiff alleged that the defendant, a former employee in the accounting department, had been making periodic unauthorized payments to his mother amounting to at least $310,160.32.

The plaintiff satisfied all criteria above but one. There was no evidence of a real risk that the defendant might dissipate his assets.

The Ontario Superior Court was thus confronted with the question of whether an injunction may be issued in absence of clear evidence that the defendant will likely dissipate his assets where there is allegation of fraud.

Unfortunately, the existing jurisprudence isn’t clear on the point.

One school of jurists takes the position that there should be a “fraud exception.” These jurists believe that if there is allegation of fraud, a Mareva injunction ought to be issued regardless of whether there is a risk that the assets will be dissipated.+

Another school of jurists disagrees, insisting that a Mareva injunction is akin to “execution before judgment” (a matter to be taken very seriously).# Therefore, these jurists hold, such an injunction should not be granted unless all five elements above are satisfied, except under very limited circumstances, regardless of whether fraud is alleged.^

It appeared to the court that both schools have had their own supporters in decisions on this matter. However, at present, there is no definitive answer as to whether a “fraud exception” categorically exists in contemporary Canadian law.

The court declined to carve out an “exception” for fraud. Rather, the judge adopted a programmatic approach, stating that the risk of removal or dissipation can be established not only from direct evidence, but also by inference from surrounding circumstances, including the circumstances of the fraud itself.

In the end, the judge concluded that the evidence of fraud was so strong that, coupled with the surrounding circumstances, it gave rise to an inference of a real risk of dissipation or removal of assets.

*[2011] ONSC 2951; (2011) 106 O.R. (3d) 494

+see e.g. Campbell v. Campbell [1881] O.J. No. 201 (Ct. Ch.); Mills v. Petrovic (1980), 30 O.R. (2d) 238 (H.C.J.)

#Lister & Co. v. Stubbs (1890), 45 Ch. D. 1

^see e.g. Cital v. Rothbart (1982), 39 O.R. (2d) 513



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Non-Custodial (Access) Parents’ Rights

What are the rights of the non-custodial parent after separation or divorce?

In Ontario, the non-custodial parent has certain fundamental rights and obligations under the law. Unfortunately, there seems to be a great deal of confusion about them.

There are actually two types of non-custodial parents: those who have joint or shared custody but do not live with the children, and those who do not have legal custody.

If a parent shares the custody but does not live with the children, that parent is nonetheless entitled to make major decisions on behalf of the children, jointly with the other parent.

If the parent does not have legal custody of the children, the non-custodial parent typically will have access to the child. The right to access to a child includes the right to visit with and be visited by the child and the same rights as a custodial parent to make inquiries and to be given information about the health, education, and welfare of the children, unless a court order or a domestic agreement provides otherwise.*

For example, the non-custodial or access parent’s right may include these rights:

  • the right to receive information from the other parent about the children’s health, education, and well-being, and to be informed about upcoming decisions concerning the children;
  • the right to talk to the children’s doctors, dentists, psychologists, teachers, and school staff, and to have access to the children’s records;
  • the right to attend the children’s school activities;
  • the right to be promptly notified of any emergencies concerning the children;
  • in emergencies, where the custodial parent cannot be located within a reasonable time, the right to give consent to medical, dental, or surgical treatment if the child’s health or safety is in danger.

Readers are cautioned that the list above is not exhaustive. For questions regarding your specific circumstances, you should speak to a licensed lawyer for legal advise.

*Children’s Law Reform Act, s. 20(5)(7)

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A Spouse’s Right to Possession of the Matrimonial Home

The Ontario Family Law Act has an entire section devoted to dealings with respect to matrimonial homes, although it is only applicable to married couples.* Readers are reminded that this article is not meant to be an exhaustive list of rights and obligations attached to a matrimonial home.

Unsurprising to most, under the law both spouses have an equal right to live at the matrimonial home. (In legal parlance, we call it “a right to possession.”) If only one of the spouses has an interest in a matrimonial home, the other spouse’s right of possession ends when the two cease to be spouses, unless a separation agreement or court order provides otherwise.

A matrimonial home is defined as “every property in which a person has an interest that is ordinarily occupied by the person and the spouse as their family residence.” The definition is wide and includes a residential unit owned by a corporation of which one spouse is a shareholder.

The right to possession of a matrimonial home is a personal right apart from any property interest. It does not create an interest in the mortgage or against third-party creditors.+

To cure the potential hazard of third-party creditors enforcing existing security agreements (e.g., foreclosure or power of sale) and thereby interfering with a person’s right to live at the matrimonial home, the spouse who does not have a legal interest in the home is entitled to notice and has the right of redemption.^

Finally, the law does allow a spouse to apply for exclusive possession of the matrimonial home under certain circumstances. In other words, the court has the authority to abrogate the other spouse’s right to possession.

*R.S.O. 1990, c. F.3, as am, Part II

+See e.g. Miller v. Miller (1996) R.F.L. (4th) 191 (Ont. C.A.); Manufacturers Life Insurance Co. v. Riviera Farm Holdings (1998), 39 R.F.L. (4th) 1 (Ont. C.A.); and Royal Bank v. King (1991), 35 R.F.L. (3d) 325 (Ont. Gen. Div.)

^Family Law Act, supra, s. 22

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On Certificates of Pending Litigation in Family Law

A certificate of pending litigation (in legalese, also referred to as lis pendens) is a notice to third parties that interests in a piece of land are currently in dispute before the courts.

The certificate of pending litigation may only be issued under a court order and is only effective in Ontario once properly registered.* Although in theory the certificate does not prohibit individuals from further dealings with the real property in dispute, in effect few purchasers will consider buying a piece of land that comes with questionable ownership.

Although they are generally considered a temporary relief in the context of civil litigation, certificates of pending litigation are available in family law if the legal requirements are met.^ More specifically, the applicant must demonstrate to the court, on the balance of probabilities, that he or she has an interest in the land in dispute.

A claim for issuing a certificate of pending litigation may be made by motion without notice to the respondents (or, in legalese, on an ex parte basis).

To prevent abuse of motions made without reasonable grounds, the Courts of Justice Act stipulates that a party who registers a certificate of pending litigation without a reasonable claim is liable for any damages by any person as a result of its registration.

In practice, the moving party seeking a certificate of pending litigation is required to file an undertaking as to damages. The person seeking the relief will have to undertake to abide by any order concerning damages that the court may make if it ultimately appears that the granting of the order has caused damage to the responding party for which the moving party ought to compensate.#

*Courts of Justice Act, R.S.O. 1990, C. C.43, s.103, see also Rules of Civil Procedure, R.R.O 1990, Reg. 194, R. 40.

^Reicher v. Reicher (1980), 20 R.F.L. (2d) 213

#Rules of Civil Procedure, supra, R. 40.03

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