
Wrapping up a collaborative family law case can bring mixed feelings. (Photo courtesy of SXC, all rights reserved.)
Toronto Family Law Lawyer Pei-Shing B. Wang:
In previous postings, I’ve talked about starting and managing collaborative family law cases. Today’s discussion is about wrapping things up.
In my experience, “the end” in a collaborative family law case is almost always bittersweet. On the one hand, the spouses are relieved that they have sorted out their legal issues and don’t need to worry anymore about being sued. On the other hand, they realize that they are no longer spouses to each other and must move on with their lives.
In collaborative family law, most agreements are not binding until they’ve been formally executed. Therefore, once the spouses have agreed on a settlement, it’s important for the lawyers to act quickly to bring the matter to its formal conclusion.
Usually the final settlement agreement is written as a separation agreement with a few tweaks. Basic background information, such as the dates of marriage and separation, will of course be stated. The final agreement will confirm that both spouses have chosen the collaborative process and that each spouse has been aided by his or her own lawyer. Other professionals who have helped the couple during the process will also be specified along with the tasks they have performed.
If there are children involved, a separate parenting plan may be attached as an exhibit to the agreement. The parenting plan may be drafted by the child specialist or the divorce coach who has worked with the parents extensively as part of the collaborative process. Invariably, there will be clauses stating that the parents will remain flexible to accommodate special circumstances, such as illness and school events, and put the best interests of the children above their own.
Finally, there is almost always a special paragraph where the spouses acknowledge that they have been advised of the relevant laws and understand that their decisions as outlined in the settlement may differ from those adjudicated by the court system.
This blog is provided for educational purposes and for your reference. It is not intended as legal advice and should not be regarded as such. The law may have changed since the publication of this article.



Separation Agreements Are Subject to Best Interests of Child and Child Support Guidelines
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Can you do anything you want in a separation agreement? In Ontario, the answer is no, even if the rules of natural justice are observed.
In both the Family Law Act* and the Children’s Law Reform Act,^ the law stipulates that all domestic contracts, including separation agreements, are subject to the best interests of the children.
For example, the parents can’t agree to never send their school-aged children to school. Nor may parents agree to leave their infants unattended at any time.
Besides the above, the Family Law Act also stipulates that domestic contracts are presumably subject to the Child Support Guidelines, even if the domestic contract addressed was entered into under the authority of another jurisdiction. Provisions not compliant with the Child Support Guidelines may be found unenforceable by the courts of Ontario.
In Blagaich v. Blagaich,+ the parties entered into a divorce settlement in the state of Maryland. The terms of the settlement were subsequently incorporated into a divorce order issed by the local court. The order provided that child support payments were to cease when the child reached the age of 18 or graduated from high school (which is inconsistent with the Federal Child Support Guidelines). The parties also stipulated that the settlement was to be governed under the laws of Maryland, and that the Maryland courts would have jurisdiction over the matter.
The Ontario Superior Court found that once the parties have attorned to (legal jargon for “submitted to the jurisdiction of”) the Ontario court, or once the Ontario court has assumed exclusive jurisdiction over the matter, the separation agreement (or divorce settlement) must comply with the laws of Ontario if it is to be enforceable.
Under the laws of Ontario, in determining the issue of child support payable under domestic contracts (including separation agreements, or in the present case, an order issued on consent of the parties according to the minutes of settlement), a court may disregard any provision that is unreasonable under the Child Support Guidelines.
In the end, the payor was ordered to pay child support pursuant to the Child Support Guidelines and the Family Law Act, notwithstanding the provision terminating support when the child reaches the age of 18 or graduates from high school contained in the consent order issued by the Maryland court.
*R.S.O. 1990, c. F.3., as am., s. 33, 56 and 58
^R.S.O. 1990, c. C.12, as am., s. 20, 22, and 24
+2007 CanLII 37325 (ON SC)
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